Nora and Miles

Since Ben's Big Birthday bash, on February 16th, his cousins Nora and Miles have been gallivanting around Sydney, Adelaide, and Woolongong. Last night, Alan and I had the opportunity to host Ben, Peter, Miles, Nora, Ange and Ben for dinner. We served steak of course. Nora really liked the char crust seasoning. Here's the website: http://www.charcrust.com/! Tell them we sent you.

We listened to music, ate, drank six bottles of beautiful Australian red wine, and stayed up until way after 2:00 - on a school night. Of course, the only poor sod who had to go to school was Alan. Bless him, he got up without waking anyone and choofed off to work in a tie. That meant he had a customer meeting today - I hope it went well.

Anyhoo, here's a little evidence of our festivities; I threw one view of the breakfast we had this afternoon (sorry, Alan). Nora, Miles, Ben, and Peter - welcome to the WALL OF FAME!

Art is Amazing

Hi. There is a website that I want you to have a look at. Just click on the title of this posting and check it out. This is art that makes you think (and might make you change).

A new word meaning by Wendy...

E-motion = an activity caused by things that you read about and see and hear on the internet

Now... go recycle your mobile phone, your plastic bags, and your SUV. I'm no better than you, I just hope we can make a difference. Make a change.

Not politics, just life.

Yes We Can

As an American, I am beginning to watch the US election with more vigor than before. Unable to vote in the primaries as an ex-pat, I have attempted to stay removed from the hype that has been active for over a year already. We still have nine months to go. You can make a human before the election. Go practice that. :)

I have not decided between Clinton, Obama, and McCain. There is a lot of research to do. And I will. It is very important to me.

Something that I do like to see in politicians is their passion. Their ability to set goals, create dreams, and inspire action. JFK had that ability, Ronald Reagan had that ability, Bill Clinton had that ability, and Barack Obama seems to be able to say the right things in that respect.

I do want the world to be a better place.

I hope that this video works better for you than it did for me. I think I found it when one million other people found it - and the buffering drove me crazy. But the message still came through....

The Stolen Generation

As a new Australian citizen, I now feel I have a small voice in the politics and issues that affect this country. One such issue is the "Stolen Generations" and whether or not the Australian government should be able to apologise for the policies that created these Stolen Generations. It seems silly to be this concerned about the mere act of saying, "Oops, I'm sorry," but concerned we have been about the possible repercussions of those empathetic words.

Here is some information I have been sent to help me argue the case, to dispel the myths, to make some sense of the issue. I thought you might be interested. (Source: www.getup.org.au.)

Who are the stolen generations?
The term ‘Stolen Generations’ refers to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Australians who were forcibly removed from their families and communities by policies of government, welfare and church authorities as children and placed into institutional care or with non-Indigenous foster families. The forced removal of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children began as early as the mid 1800s and continued until the 1970s.
(http://www.reconcile.org.au/getsmart/pages/sorry/sorry--faq.php#1)

The apology?
A central recommendation of the 1997 'Bringing Them Home' report was the need for a national apology to those individuals and their families and communities affected by past policies of removal. Members of the Stolen Generations have indicated that recognition by the Government that the policies were wrong would help in addressing the trauma and suffering that they have experienced. The need for a national apology is also regarded as an important component of the broader reconciliation process between Indidenous and non-Indigenous Australians. (http://www.antar.org.au/content/view/112/1/)

Myth 1 - I will not be made to feel guilt and shame for something I didn’t do
Individual Australians are not responsible and should not feel guilty. ‘Sorry’ does not have to be an expression of shame or guilt. It can be an expression of empathy, as in ‘I’m sorry to hear your friend died’ or ‘I’m sorry you got hurt in that car accident’. If people are still confused on this front, they might recall that several years ago, John Howard apologised on behalf on the nation to Vietnam Veterans for their poor treatment when they returned from the war.

In any case the apology will not be made on behalf of the Australian people but rather limited
to the Australian Parliament.

Myth 2 – The Stolen Generations are a thing of the past
Of all the Stolen Generations myths, this is one of the biggest. The facts are that the removal of Indigenous children continued well into the 1960s and early 1970s. These people are still alive today and the effect on individuals, families and communities lasts a lifetime (and beyond).

Myth 3 - Saying sorry won’t deliver better results in health, housing or education
Saying sorry is not of itself supposed to deliver health, housing and education. The fundamental flaw of this particular objection is that it implies Australia can’t deliver practical outcomes while simultaneously delivering symbolic gestures. In other words, it suggests we can’t walk and chew gum at the same time. The government must also pursue practical measures to address Indigenous disadvantage, but that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t begin the process with a symbolic act.

Myth 4 - It’ll cost us a fortune
Contrary to popular opinion, a national apology will have no legal impact on the capacity of members of the Stolen Generations to seek compensation. The ability of members of the Stolen Generations to pursue legal claims has existed since they were taken and nothing changes that. As a nation, an apology costs us nothing.

Myth 5 - The people who performed the removals thought they were doing the right thing
Good people do things that turn out to be wrong – but that doesn’t mean they’re excused from apologising. The majority of Indigenous children were removed from families not on the basis of the level of their care - but simply because of the colour of their skin. Many kids experienced physical, sexual and emotional abuse in their foster families and institutions after they were removed. For those people who believe that forced removal actually benefited the children – it’s pretty difficult to find a member of the Stolen Generations who is happy about being denied the love of their parents and extended family.

Myth 6 - Saying sorry won’t change the past
Sadly, it won’t. But it will have a massive impact on the future – Stolen Generations members have already started healing since the promise to apologise was announced. An apology means an enormous amount to Indigenous people and the nation as a whole – and will cost us nothing.

Myth 7 - Saying sorry just leads people to think everything’s been fixed
Whether you’re for or against it, anyone who thinks that everything will be ‘fixed’ with the apology is kidding themselves. No-one is claiming that uttering the word ‘sorry’ is going to solve all the problems facing Indigenous Australians. Whatever your view on the apology, everyone agrees that practical actions still need to be taken. The apology is an important first step.

F#####g Rain!

(Photo Credit: Me)

How well do you know me? I am an Arizonan. I was brought up in the desert. I thrive on moisturizer, water, chapstick, and air conditioning. My fishy star sign is completely out of sync with my preferred atmospheric conditions - though I do love to swim in a 80 degree plus pool when it gets hot outside - any lower and I freeze up and get cramps.

I don't live in Arizona anymore. I gave up the oven for cooler places. Denver for one. Still dry, but cool and clean in the mile high air. And now, Sydney. Where the temperature is pretty nice almost all year round. There's only one problem.

Water.

Freaking heaps of it.

Dropping from the sky for days on end.

And if it's not dropping from the sky, it's hanging in the air thinking about dropping from the sky.

The grass grows as you watch it.

I'm going nuts and it's only been 2 days. It kills me. Makes me claustrophobic. Gives me small moments of depression.

The dogs go stir crazy, too. They play inside. And don't get me started if thunderstorms accompany the water. Mogy freaks out. He follows you (me) around with zero personal space and if you (I) sit down, he jumps into your (my) lap even when he KNOWS he isn't allowed onto the chair, couch, bed that you are (I am) sitting on. Copper is fine. In fact, he has so much hair that he doesn't know it's raining. He likes to try to catch the raindrops in his mouth. It's very cute. A source of entertainment.

Well, I just thought I'd share my state of mind with you. It'll go away. The rain. I'm sure I'll be begging for it to come cool the place down in a few days. But for today, I'm wearing Ugg boots in the summer and dreading the thought of getting wet when I go out to the post office. Wah!

My favourite Part of the Superbowl

And I don't even drink beer.... I just love Bud Light ads.